Hi,
I am Md Zillur Rahman (PhD student at the University of Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand), and I think human beings are too dynamic and multi-dimensional to sketch in a few words.
What I can do:
Love:
I will love my life partner unconditionally. I will respect her values and beliefs. I will help my life partner to evolve as a person in every aspect of her life. I will love all - including flawed parts of her life so that she feels happy and fulfilled at any stage of her life. In fact, if I cannot love her all of her! Even weird, awkward, and flawed parts, then, I don't really deserve her. I will make time together a priority because even the best relationship cannot survive without proper care and attention.
Respect:
I will treat and respect to my partner's parents the way I do for my parents. My princess will be treated like a queen.
I am not perfect if I do have any shortcomings, then I do not mind admitting. I may do mistake, no problem for imploring sincere sorry and apology.
What other attributes I have:
Prayer:
As a Muslim, I have to pray at least five times a day. I try my best to pray five times.
Selfless:
I am selfless enough to surprise with the occasional small act of kindness, without the expectation of getting anything out of it or in return. It is important to me that we will be on the same page no matter what.
Integrity, loyalty etc.:
I am a person with integrity and have a way of being in the world with a deep level of commitment to all the essential qualities necessary for a loving and successful relationship: love, empathy, honesty, humour and fun, loyalty, generosity, flexibility, patience and humility. I have built myself as a mature and intelligent, loyal and trustworthy, loving and attentive, kind and nurturing, competent and responsible man.
Driving and others what I like:
I love driving, especially going for long drives and deep sea fishing. I love going to the gym as well.
I can cook some scrumptious dishes, though I don't like cooking that much. I always like to eat healthy foods and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Alhamdulillah, for everything.
In any unwanted disagreements:
Simply, I am aware that it is rare that one half of a couple is 100% right or wrong in any given argument. The answer usually lies somewhere in the middle. However, exceptions are always there. Of course, I would not mind making an emotionally safe place to express her thoughts/feelings/needs and be responsive in a way that makes her feel important and special, not putting her down even at times I might disagree with her.
Education:
I'm currently doing PhD in Mechanical Engineering at the University of Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand and working as a Graduate Teaching Assistant at the same university. In addition, I have done Master of Engineering (Hons) in Mechanical Engineering at the University of Auckland and Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering at Bangladesh University of Engineering and Technology (BUET), Dhaka, Bangladesh.
What I am looking for:
A girl who can afford to give me unconditional love and caring. If all that sounds good to you, then please contact me.
Thank you very much for your time.
Jazak Allahu Khayran (May Allah reward you with goodness).
Regards,
Zillur
Family Details
Basic
Father :
Professional
Mother :
Homemaker
Brother(s) :
0
Sister(s) :
1
About My Family
We are a closely knit nuclear family of 4 members that includes my father, mother and younger sister. My father works in a nationalized bank as an executive officer in Dhaka while my mother is a full time homemaker. My sister is studying honors in social welfare at Savar University College.
